In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster
But in front of the person you like , you get happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring
But in front of the person you like, winter is just a beautiful winter.
If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.
In front of the person you love, you can' t say everything on your mind
But in front of the person you like, you can.
In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy
But in front of the person you like, you can show your ownself.
Then person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes.
You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.
When the one you love is crying, you cry with them
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.
The feeling of love starts from the eye
And the feeling of like starts from the ear.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like
All you need to do is cover your ears,
But if you try to close your eyes
Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever after.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Monday, September 21, 2009
Getting Over a Break Up.....
If your boyfriend/girlfriend left you, then you must get ready for the phases of a break up. Although the pain felt can be awful, each phase is part of the healing process. The stages of a break up are generally the following ones, but the steps can have a different order..
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Overcoming a break up and especially a rejection is very similar to other types of loss and sufference...nd the phases are nt too different:
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1. The denial phase
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"This isn't happening". During this stage, most often you wait for your bf/gf to call, as you can't believe that the relationship really ended.
The solution: You should accept the reality and admit your feelings towards this reality. Accept it, but don't be ashamed, repeating yourself those: "I should gave/ I could/ I would have done".
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2. The negotiation phase
You lose nights after nights thinking that "If I change my hair color", "If I don't call him for a week", then he will change his mind.
The only solution: Admit that it's over.
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3. The phase of a broken heart
You feel that your heart is broken for real. You can even feel the pain in your chest, or you're about to make a panic attack each time you see him with someone else.
The solution: Move on! Try to focus on something that makes you happy. Don't be sad thinking that your boyfriend is happy while your world is ruined. Only your experience matter and only your efforts make you happy.
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4. The self-accusing phase
You're accusing yourself or you're accusing him for things you've done wrong.
The solution: Admit that nobody was wrong, as you are both responsible for the break up.
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5. The phase of depression
You're feeling sad, embarrassed or unworthy of appreciation. You don't eat, you don't sleep and you imagine that there will never be love again.
The solution: Accept the pain, but not fall in self-compassion. Keep yourself busy with activities and projects.
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6. The phase of anger
You're feeling angry because you have been rejected, you can even develop a sense of hatred.
The solution: It's ok to feel angry, but do not overdo, and do not let yourself affected by all the sufferance felt before.
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7. The acceptance phase
In the end, you believe and accept that it's over. You're not waiting anymore to be called by him and you start feeling more relaxed.
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8. The healing phase
Life begins to regain its normal course. You feel ready to go out with your friends and to meet new people. You haven't forgotten, but u stopped cring bcz of a breakup........
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I hope it helps......
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.
Overcoming a break up and especially a rejection is very similar to other types of loss and sufference...nd the phases are nt too different:
.
1. The denial phase
.
"This isn't happening". During this stage, most often you wait for your bf/gf to call, as you can't believe that the relationship really ended.
The solution: You should accept the reality and admit your feelings towards this reality. Accept it, but don't be ashamed, repeating yourself those: "I should gave/ I could/ I would have done".
.
.
.
2. The negotiation phase
You lose nights after nights thinking that "If I change my hair color", "If I don't call him for a week", then he will change his mind.
The only solution: Admit that it's over.
.
.
.
3. The phase of a broken heart
You feel that your heart is broken for real. You can even feel the pain in your chest, or you're about to make a panic attack each time you see him with someone else.
The solution: Move on! Try to focus on something that makes you happy. Don't be sad thinking that your boyfriend is happy while your world is ruined. Only your experience matter and only your efforts make you happy.
.
.
.
4. The self-accusing phase
You're accusing yourself or you're accusing him for things you've done wrong.
The solution: Admit that nobody was wrong, as you are both responsible for the break up.
.
.
.
5. The phase of depression
You're feeling sad, embarrassed or unworthy of appreciation. You don't eat, you don't sleep and you imagine that there will never be love again.
The solution: Accept the pain, but not fall in self-compassion. Keep yourself busy with activities and projects.
.
.
.
6. The phase of anger
You're feeling angry because you have been rejected, you can even develop a sense of hatred.
The solution: It's ok to feel angry, but do not overdo, and do not let yourself affected by all the sufferance felt before.
.
.
.
7. The acceptance phase
In the end, you believe and accept that it's over. You're not waiting anymore to be called by him and you start feeling more relaxed.
.
.
.
8. The healing phase
Life begins to regain its normal course. You feel ready to go out with your friends and to meet new people. You haven't forgotten, but u stopped cring bcz of a breakup........
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I hope it helps......
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